Last night, a friend and wonderful person reminded me of a thought I had while coming home on the bus the other day.
If I consider my good friends, one overarching reason why I like them is just the way their personalities come through in casual communicating - be it in a brief chat or a long talk. Knowing and enjoying someone's unique mannerisms in interaction is something I really value.
So I was thinking about text communications between friends. I talk online and send text messages with friends all the time. To what degree each person is "genuine" (speaks online as they would face to face) might be difficult to measure, but I realized one thing: one of my favorite moments in talking online or via text message is when a friend says something that just totally sounds like them. I can hear it in their voice and see how their facial expression would look. It's the closest feeling to being with them in person when communicating by text, I think. Truly makes me smile inside.
Sunday, May 1, 2011
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