I often find myself lingering, cuz I've got some kind of nice outfit on and makeup and maybe earrings I like, and my hair looks good (or at least it did when I headed out, haha)... And I feel a bit sad to change into pajamas, go over to the sink and rub the makeup off. An old Hard Rock Cafe t-shirt and a pair of Calvin Klein pajama pants (not even plaid!) for which I somewhere have a matching top, probably stuffed at the bottom of a dresser drawer -- they just can't really compare. Though, I guess lazy and mismatched clothes imply a letting-go sense that is appropriate for heading to sleep.
I really love nights that kind of spontaneously turn out to be just really good. Sometimes I can hardly believe how happy I am, how lucky I am to have these friends and to be meeting new awesome people and having such fun. These moments make me believe life truly is good.
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
That 30-second epiphany that defines the clarinet player's life in the band
So earlier today (it's still Monday in my head), we're playing Pinball Wizard at Penn Band rehearsal. Cool song, right? Well, I guess. At any rate the drum major decides to have only the clarinets and flutes play their part at the beginning of the song. The part is a rhythmic pattern of 8ths/16ths that repeats in each measure and I believe is meant to imitate the guitar strumming. (As a side note I'll say it took me til senior year to figure out the rhythm... or at least I think I've got it now.) The action proceeds as follows:
Clarinets/flutes: (begin playing the part, several measures go by)
Trumpet player: Wait, that's the part?!? ...... Wow, that's gross!
Major sigh. In the space of 30 seconds it was plainly illustrated how a) we sometimes get stuck with annoying, boring, or otherwise undesirable parts, but far worse, b) very often the rest of the band doesn't even have a clue what we're playing cuz they can't hear us at all. This was one of those moments when I'm not sure how much I really contribute to the band. Oh well.
Clarinets/flutes: (begin playing the part, several measures go by)
Trumpet player: Wait, that's the part?!? ...... Wow, that's gross!
Major sigh. In the space of 30 seconds it was plainly illustrated how a) we sometimes get stuck with annoying, boring, or otherwise undesirable parts, but far worse, b) very often the rest of the band doesn't even have a clue what we're playing cuz they can't hear us at all. This was one of those moments when I'm not sure how much I really contribute to the band. Oh well.
Monday, March 15, 2010
Cuddle buddies...
Last night I set my chat status to:
"i want a cuddle buddy
"
Some friends responded like so...
I maintain that simple touch is an often forgotten joy.
"i want a cuddle buddy
"Some friends responded like so...
friend: i want one too
friend: hehehe
my brother: i have a cuddle buddy [=
me: that puppy???
my brother: yuppp!
my brother: want to seeee?
me: adorableeee
friend: omg I want one tooo!!! lol
I maintain that simple touch is an often forgotten joy.
Monday, March 8, 2010
When I was little
I thought crutches were cool. I sort of hoped I would break an ankle so I could walk around using them. I even built a pair out of Pipeworks and tried them out in the front yard.
My brothers and I collected Matchbox/Hot Wheels cars. Each one received a name--some as creative as "Box Truck" and "O. Race" (short for "Orange Race"). Some of them were grouped into "gangs", which were simply groups with a leader and a precise order in which they drove around together in a single-file line formation. I drew by hand a large "mat" which included a whole neighborhood with homes, i.e. garages, for each vehicle, as well as destinations like stores with parking lots to which they could travel in groups. Sometimes in the nicer weather we'd draw maps outside on the driveway with chalk and bring all the cars out there.
My parents had a friend from whom we bought (or maybe just received second-hand) an old foosball table. Rather than a sturdy frame like today's tables, this one had aluminum(?) legs and the playing area board sagged towards one side. The provided ball was too large to fit through into the goals, so we substituted bouncy balls. My brother and I had crazy, crazy matches. The table would be skidding all over the floor. Most of the players were no longer fixed properly in place on the rods, and many would end up upside down or shoved into their neighbor amidst gameplay. (We paused after each goal was scored to realign them.) Oh, and we named the players...after the Matchbox cars.
A favorite warm-weather activity was to find a bucket and a paintbrush from the basement, fill the bucket with water, and "paint" the siding of the house.
My parents own a fairly small CD collection. Perhaps the two albums to which I most loved to listen and dance (around the living room) were Michael Jackson's Thriller and Miami Sound Machine's Primitive Love.
I loved dogs. I'd search the newspaper classified listings for dogs that were being given away for free. In fifth grade I did a project that used surveys, statistics compiled from my own readings of dog breed books, and database queries (help from Dad there) to output which dog matched you best. I had my favorite breeds: Labradors, golden retrievers, Dalmatians, beagles. My parents never did take on the responsibility of a dog in our family, but I did walk my neighbors' dog for awhile and--though she was about as lazy a dog as I've ever come across--I loved her too.
I read books all the time. I liked series... Sweet Valley Twins, Animorphs, The Chronicles of Narnia, the Amber Brown books. And there were plenty of other books, in series and not, which I'm sure I forget at the moment.
There's a giant maple tree in my front yard. It's beautiful. I used to climb it and sit in it often. I also found long sticks and collected them by storing them wedged between a split in the branches.
I was totally addicted to computer games. Various titles enjoyed overlapping phases of different lengths in the limelight of interest. Some of my favorites (most played) were: Chex Quest, Roller Coaster Tycoon, Hot Wheels Stunt Track Driver, and KidPix. Others included Tonka Construction, Midnight Rescue, Crayola Art Studio, and a variety of Sim games from City to Copter to Farm. These were of the Windows 95/98 era. On Windows 3.1 I played lots of Tetris and a text-only game, all based on wordplay, known as Nord and Bert Couldn't Make Head or Tail of It. Before the Internet began to swallow all of my computer time, these games were what I would do with it.
In eighth grade I watched Pokémon on TV after school. I've never watched TV much, but this is one show I was pretty faithful about following. I also played the Pokémon board game with my brothers; we'd stretch a single game out across days of playing time so we could build up our arsenals of Pokémon.
I never ever drank coffee. Somehow I thought even the decaf my parents drink would get you addicted, and always warned my brothers of this.
In the park down the road from my house, my town puts on a fireworks display every July 4th. For many of those years I believed they shot off fireworks by pounding a packet of powder with a huge hammer. Hence the "boom" sound was created--logical enough, right?
I built awesome things with Legos and K'Nex. Some of them didn't come from the instruction books!
My family belonged to a couple of pool clubs over some years. The one where we spent most summers was the Holmdel Swim and Tennis Center. There was the "big pool" and the "medium pool", a baby pool, and a diving tank. I was always very slow getting into the cold water, a problem I've carried into my beach days now, of course. But I loved swimming, playing with my brothers, and making those perfect pencil dives to touch the bottom of the 13-foot-deep diving tank.
I sold Girl Scout cookies to my neighbors. Since I showed up every year they all knew the deal already. My mom always accompanied me on the walks. For delivery we'd pile the boxes into the red wagon and pull it around with us.
An odd combination of toy sets my brothers and I used to make was "farm and construction". We had a barn house with various appropriate animals and a farmer and family, and a set of construction vehicles and guys in hard hats. I would make up a storyline as we went and these two sets would interact.
Another strange amusement we came up with was that which we code-named "Suman Huitcase". This was simply a swapping of first letters to refer to "Human Suitcase". It involved putting one of us in the largest family suitcase, zipping it up, and moving the encased person to someplace else in the basement, whereupon they were to guess their new location. Yes, this was a slightly nervewracking experience, but I guess we trusted each other enough.
We used to eat these couple of cereals I really loved--Cracklin' Oat Bran and Just Right--until Mom stopped buying them because she deemed them not healthy enough.
My brothers and I collected Matchbox/Hot Wheels cars. Each one received a name--some as creative as "Box Truck" and "O. Race" (short for "Orange Race"). Some of them were grouped into "gangs", which were simply groups with a leader and a precise order in which they drove around together in a single-file line formation. I drew by hand a large "mat" which included a whole neighborhood with homes, i.e. garages, for each vehicle, as well as destinations like stores with parking lots to which they could travel in groups. Sometimes in the nicer weather we'd draw maps outside on the driveway with chalk and bring all the cars out there.
My parents had a friend from whom we bought (or maybe just received second-hand) an old foosball table. Rather than a sturdy frame like today's tables, this one had aluminum(?) legs and the playing area board sagged towards one side. The provided ball was too large to fit through into the goals, so we substituted bouncy balls. My brother and I had crazy, crazy matches. The table would be skidding all over the floor. Most of the players were no longer fixed properly in place on the rods, and many would end up upside down or shoved into their neighbor amidst gameplay. (We paused after each goal was scored to realign them.) Oh, and we named the players...after the Matchbox cars.
A favorite warm-weather activity was to find a bucket and a paintbrush from the basement, fill the bucket with water, and "paint" the siding of the house.
My parents own a fairly small CD collection. Perhaps the two albums to which I most loved to listen and dance (around the living room) were Michael Jackson's Thriller and Miami Sound Machine's Primitive Love.
I loved dogs. I'd search the newspaper classified listings for dogs that were being given away for free. In fifth grade I did a project that used surveys, statistics compiled from my own readings of dog breed books, and database queries (help from Dad there) to output which dog matched you best. I had my favorite breeds: Labradors, golden retrievers, Dalmatians, beagles. My parents never did take on the responsibility of a dog in our family, but I did walk my neighbors' dog for awhile and--though she was about as lazy a dog as I've ever come across--I loved her too.
I read books all the time. I liked series... Sweet Valley Twins, Animorphs, The Chronicles of Narnia, the Amber Brown books. And there were plenty of other books, in series and not, which I'm sure I forget at the moment.
There's a giant maple tree in my front yard. It's beautiful. I used to climb it and sit in it often. I also found long sticks and collected them by storing them wedged between a split in the branches.
I was totally addicted to computer games. Various titles enjoyed overlapping phases of different lengths in the limelight of interest. Some of my favorites (most played) were: Chex Quest, Roller Coaster Tycoon, Hot Wheels Stunt Track Driver, and KidPix. Others included Tonka Construction, Midnight Rescue, Crayola Art Studio, and a variety of Sim games from City to Copter to Farm. These were of the Windows 95/98 era. On Windows 3.1 I played lots of Tetris and a text-only game, all based on wordplay, known as Nord and Bert Couldn't Make Head or Tail of It. Before the Internet began to swallow all of my computer time, these games were what I would do with it.
In eighth grade I watched Pokémon on TV after school. I've never watched TV much, but this is one show I was pretty faithful about following. I also played the Pokémon board game with my brothers; we'd stretch a single game out across days of playing time so we could build up our arsenals of Pokémon.
I never ever drank coffee. Somehow I thought even the decaf my parents drink would get you addicted, and always warned my brothers of this.
In the park down the road from my house, my town puts on a fireworks display every July 4th. For many of those years I believed they shot off fireworks by pounding a packet of powder with a huge hammer. Hence the "boom" sound was created--logical enough, right?
I built awesome things with Legos and K'Nex. Some of them didn't come from the instruction books!
My family belonged to a couple of pool clubs over some years. The one where we spent most summers was the Holmdel Swim and Tennis Center. There was the "big pool" and the "medium pool", a baby pool, and a diving tank. I was always very slow getting into the cold water, a problem I've carried into my beach days now, of course. But I loved swimming, playing with my brothers, and making those perfect pencil dives to touch the bottom of the 13-foot-deep diving tank.
I sold Girl Scout cookies to my neighbors. Since I showed up every year they all knew the deal already. My mom always accompanied me on the walks. For delivery we'd pile the boxes into the red wagon and pull it around with us.
An odd combination of toy sets my brothers and I used to make was "farm and construction". We had a barn house with various appropriate animals and a farmer and family, and a set of construction vehicles and guys in hard hats. I would make up a storyline as we went and these two sets would interact.
Another strange amusement we came up with was that which we code-named "Suman Huitcase". This was simply a swapping of first letters to refer to "Human Suitcase". It involved putting one of us in the largest family suitcase, zipping it up, and moving the encased person to someplace else in the basement, whereupon they were to guess their new location. Yes, this was a slightly nervewracking experience, but I guess we trusted each other enough.
We used to eat these couple of cereals I really loved--Cracklin' Oat Bran and Just Right--until Mom stopped buying them because she deemed them not healthy enough.
Sunday, February 28, 2010
But I cannot forget, refuse to regret
I walk home slowly. It's nice, since 99 percent of the time I'm speed walking to my next commitment and will probably be late anyway. Since I remembered finally to charge my iPod, I select the songs for the walk: Human Nature, by Michael Jackson, and She Says, by Howie Day. I need something soothing for my thoughts.
Or maybe they're just ridiculous. I take the elevator up and I know I'm dead tired, but I don't want to change into pajamas (which are way more comfortable) nor smear off the makeup yet. I'd rather entertain in my imagination that the night's continuing. I'm laughing, then lifting my eyes to meet those of that person I want to be hanging out with.
But... I'm not even sure all the time who that person is.
Much as I do like to ignore it, I think I'm sensing the reality of the pointless situation moreso now. Maybe that means I'm dealing with it a little bit.
I think I'm looking for distractions too, though. I try to spend my time with various friends, and enjoying that time keeps me from dealing with my thoughts when I'm alone. And as I run around to all sorts of fun things, I look for whom upon to place my "that person" attention. So give me the superficial, the new random crushes, the boy of the night with whom I know nothing will happen anyhow. Am I just giddy, high on this shallow feeling and the taste of the game played by two?
At the end of the night, no matter how late I've stayed out, I'm coming home to cuddle with my pillow as I lie there and run the day's situations through my head. Fun is great, really. I am appreciating it. But what I'm missing, I think, is something more real and more fundamental. It's got the meaning to make it last through time. Or so I suppose, or assume, or whatever. I don't really know if I even understand. But I'm feeling the lack of something like this, and so I'm hoping for the twists of life paths that will bring it into mine. Sometime soon, perhaps.
(title: "The Sun" - Maroon 5)
Or maybe they're just ridiculous. I take the elevator up and I know I'm dead tired, but I don't want to change into pajamas (which are way more comfortable) nor smear off the makeup yet. I'd rather entertain in my imagination that the night's continuing. I'm laughing, then lifting my eyes to meet those of that person I want to be hanging out with.
But... I'm not even sure all the time who that person is.
Much as I do like to ignore it, I think I'm sensing the reality of the pointless situation moreso now. Maybe that means I'm dealing with it a little bit.
I think I'm looking for distractions too, though. I try to spend my time with various friends, and enjoying that time keeps me from dealing with my thoughts when I'm alone. And as I run around to all sorts of fun things, I look for whom upon to place my "that person" attention. So give me the superficial, the new random crushes, the boy of the night with whom I know nothing will happen anyhow. Am I just giddy, high on this shallow feeling and the taste of the game played by two?
At the end of the night, no matter how late I've stayed out, I'm coming home to cuddle with my pillow as I lie there and run the day's situations through my head. Fun is great, really. I am appreciating it. But what I'm missing, I think, is something more real and more fundamental. It's got the meaning to make it last through time. Or so I suppose, or assume, or whatever. I don't really know if I even understand. But I'm feeling the lack of something like this, and so I'm hoping for the twists of life paths that will bring it into mine. Sometime soon, perhaps.
(title: "The Sun" - Maroon 5)
Sunday, February 14, 2010
from Facebook chat
In regards to doppelganger week on Facebook:
me: hiii
friend: hey hows it going piper parabo
me: hahahah
me: yeah what do you think bout that..accurate?
friend: haha brian saw your picture and was sooo confused ... hes like did tory's personality change in the last few months? I'm like why. Hes like have you seen her facebook picture? And i started laughing because I had already seen it
me: HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
friend: it took me a second to realize it wasnt u when i first saw it
me: oooomg
me: well i guess it's not too bad of a match.
me: hiii
friend: hey hows it going piper parabo
me: hahahah
me: yeah what do you think bout that..accurate?
friend: haha brian saw your picture and was sooo confused ... hes like did tory's personality change in the last few months? I'm like why. Hes like have you seen her facebook picture? And i started laughing because I had already seen it
me: HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
friend: it took me a second to realize it wasnt u when i first saw it
me: oooomg
me: well i guess it's not too bad of a match.
A piece of clarity
friend: hrm
friend: i mean if you can't step forward
friend: you can stay where you are or move back
friend: no matter what in 3 months it's gone
me: that's a nice simple analysis... i like it
friend: i mean if you can't step forward
friend: you can stay where you are or move back
friend: no matter what in 3 months it's gone
me: that's a nice simple analysis... i like it
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