I've very slowly started to come across a select few people with whom my body seems to fit, like two long-lost puzzle pieces. And I'm not talking about sex.
Somehow, pressing my chest and stomach to theirs and wrapping our arms around each other creates a most wonderful feeling of comfort. There's a sense of being at home, like: this is the way the entire front of my body is totally meant to feel. It's a moment of physical rightness.
I can think of one friend who falls into this category from prior, but the blues dancing scene is what has opened up this possibility to me. What can I say? We dance close with each other all the time, so the level of touch we (perhaps subconsciously) view as normal amongst the community is a bit higher than outside it. And I doubt any of us could deny that a warm hug at the end of a great blues dance with someone is icing on the cake. Yum.
Thus I have many chances to experience hugs in my life, out of which - in beautiful rarity - I am discovering more people whose hugs click with mine. Only now am I starting to consciously appreciate them as something special, and fully indulging in this natural happiness of fulfillment through the sense of touch.
Monday, June 13, 2011
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